In life, you do not get what you deserve; you get what you negotiate for. There are those who by the fact of their history, deserve failure and yet negotiate success for themselves. There are others, who by birth and history, deserve success and yet negotiate failure for themselves.
The world has witnessed many children of preachers who became wayward. And examples abound of many children of the wayward who became preachers. The children of the rich have become poor while the children of the poor have become rich in this world. Women with no natural children of their own are surrounded by the love and affection of a thousand children while women with several children of their own die in loneliness.
When you make wrong choices in life, you receive the consequences of your choices. It is a spiritual law, “Whatever a person sows, that he will reap.”